First and foremost, being a Server at High Tease is about having fun and actually enjoying what you will be doing. By choosing to Bid To Serve through this application form and (if successful) purchasing the ticket via the means provided to you, not only will you be attending the kinky tea party of your dreams, you will be engaging in a formal role-play scenario where you hold the role of Server. The role of Server is one of role-play, where you will be indulging in your submissive side whilst in a totally unique, luxurious social and play fetish environment surrounded by a wholly diverse range of other like-minded kinksters.
Servers will be instructed and led by our Mistress of Servers and assisted by our Head Servers, alongside our dedicated team of Dungeon Monitors and event official event crew. Together, you will experience an introductory "training" hour with your Mistress where you will practice what is expected of you as described in this application form and begin to lean in to the submissive state which you so desire.
Our official event team includes formal Dom/mes, submissives, Tops, bottoms and switches alike that are experienced in a huge range of kink, fetish and BDSM practices, as well as extensive event management and hosting. We are curating this event to be an exciting way to experience kink in a whole new way, to provide a dreamy day of kink-nouveau.
We are here for you and are totally open to any discussion or queries about the sever role that you may have. Any general inquiries about the High Tease event or this Bid To Serve application form may be sent via email to firstname.lastname@example.org
The application form below is for those who wish to serve at the High Tease event and includes the most pertinent information as to what the role of Server entails. Applicants will note that it is thorough to not only cover all of our bases but also to ensure that only the most enthusiastic and consent-minded hold the role of Server at High Tease. Mandatory fields are marked as such and will not be able to be submitted without answers provided to those questions.
No payment is required until your application is confirmed as successful.
Anyone who is interested and willing to engage in what is described is able to apply. No experience is necessary and each application will be assessed on a case-by-case basis.
There is a strict limit of Server spots available. If you are successful in your application, you will receive a confirmation email from Demasque within 3-5 business days of your application being made. Your confirmation email will include a link to purchase the High Tease: Bid To Serve ticket at the price of $275AUD. By purchasing that ticket you officially confirm to us both your willingness to serve under the information provided to you in this application form and your official spot as a Server at the High Tease event. If you receive a confirmation email of your successful application and do not purchase the Bid To Serve ticket within 5 days of your confirmation email, your position will be forfeited and you may re-apply via the application form below if you wish.
Applications close 7 days before the event commences.
The Basics: About You
The Role Of Server
Tasks that may be required of you if you are a successful in your application to serve at High Tease include: pouring tea and/or coffee, serving snacks to attendees in the sanitary manner that will be ascribed to you, roaming with complimentary beverages for guests, assisting with the maintenance of a clean and tidy kink and event space (e.g. removing used crockery from the common areas, sweeping any crumbs, mopping any spillages, wiping down kink equipment after play, etc).
Tasks will be delegated to successful server applicants by our Mistress of Servers upon your arrival to the event venue. The task(s) you are delegated will be based on your answers in the section below, and your personal preferences will be taken into account on the day. Tasks may also rotate, depending on agreements between you, your fellow servers and the Mistress of Servers.
Learning To Serve
If your application is successful, you will be required to arrive at the venue 1 hour before the event opens to General Attendees. Not only is this so you earn exclusive time with our Mistress of Servers, Professional Dominatrix Mistress Marie Thorne, but also so that our Head Servers, Dungeon Monitors and official event crew can become acquainted with you whilst building a sense of camaraderie with your fellow Servers, and so you receive adequate instruction for how to carry out the tasks you may be completing throughout your time at the event for the ultimate Server experience.
Examples of what you will learn during your introductory period:
• An overview of the principles of consent, specifically within a sex-and-kink-positive framework
• How to formally approach, address and interact with a Professional Dominatrix
• How to formally approach, address and interact with General Attendees
• How to prepare the perfect cup of tea and coffee to an individual's taste
• The correct etiquette for serving food and beverages (static and roaming)
• The processes of maintaining and replenishing food and beverage stations
• The maintenance of a clean and tidy social and fetish space
• How to formally engage in a proposed play negotiation
• How to give a pleasing shoulder and/or foot rub (optional)
• Forniphilia "human furniture" poses (optional).
As described prior, the tasks you will focus on during your time at the event will be assigned to you based on your answers in this application form at the time of your arrival to the event and are also open to negotiation pending your preference and interest in certain activities.
You will be expected to carry out your Server duties diligently throughout the event period, whilst still soaking up the excellent atmosphere that we have curated. You may take 'breaks' as you please.
At the time of the event's conclusion, you may leave as you wish or choose to assist with pack-down/bump-out with the official event crew.
Interacting With Attendees: Serving & Play
At the event, General Attendees are permitted to approach you to be served a snack or drink from the High Tea set up, to ask for a drink from the drink tray which you may be serving from, to ask for assistance tidying themselves, etc. They may also ask if you would like to engage in kink play with them within the event space. This is to be done only under a mutually agreed and consented upon circumstance between you and the person(s) proposing the play and following the "Play, Comfortability & Safety" policy as outlined in our official event description. You have every right to reject a request or proposition from an attendee.
Successful applicants who hold the role of Server at our event may of course approach our event attendees in a naturally social manner, but we do request that servers only approach event attendees to solicit play only in the specific forms of: foot and leg worship (massage, no oral inclusion, only below the knee), shoulder and neck massage, human furniture posing (you may wish to be a footstool or coffee table for an agreed period of time, etc.). This stipulation is to both enhance the mindset and role you hold whilst as Server. As describe in the prior section of this application form, you will receive exclusive "training" from the Mistress of Servers and Head Servers on how to carry out these tasks in the time period prior to the event officially opening to General Attendees.
Dressing The Part: Immersion
Please upload a picture (any picture) of yourself wearing any kink or fetish outfit that you are most proud of. It may be (but is not necessary to be) the same outfit you wish to wear at the event if you are successful in your application. Note that the upload supported file size is 15MB - if you are on a computer. you may find you need to resize your image in an application or via a file resizer found online. Most phone images should work here.
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If you are successful in your application to Bid To Serve at High Tease, it is not expected nor required of you to wear any "maid" or "butler" outfit or accessories whilst holding the role of Server, though this is something that you may wish to and are more than welcome to do.
Our Head Servers will, however, be in a range of differentiated "maid" or "butler" outfits to both immerse themselves in their own role-play as Servers and to heighten the feeling of the distinction between Servers and General Attendees whilst the event operates. You may wish to join them in wearing your own "maid" or "butler" outfits or accessories. If you are successful in your application and you do choose to wear any "maid" or "butler" outfits or accessories, there is no standard expectation or colour scheme for what "maid" outfit/accessories should look like, though "butler" outfits and accessories will be epected to be in the colour scheme of black and white. Both "maid" and "butler" outfits and accessories should be to the same high standard that we have set forth in our official event dress code.
Acceptable pieces of the traditional "maid" outfit and accessories include: long or short dress (or skirt and top) with long or short apron layered on top, head pieces, gloves.
Acceptable pieces of the traditional "butler" outfit and accessories include: a variation formal suit-wear (specifically black) and shoes (shirt, pants, blazer, waistcoat, long tie or bow tie), with or without a long or short apron layered on top, gloves.
Other accessories such as feather dusters, or more BDSM-servitude-specific items such as "bondage serving trays" are also acceptable.
Regardless of what you choose to wear, if you are successful in your application to Serve we do recommend choosing a pair of footwear that you feel comfortable in wearing throughout the entirety of the event, but which still fit in the theme of both your outfit and the overall official event dress code.
The Next Steps: On Your Way To Serve
If you are successful in your Bid To Serve at High Tease, all of the processes and expectations set forth in this application form will be re-informed to you during your introductory hour.
By submitting your completed application you acknowledge and agree that: if you are successful in your application, you will receive a confirmation email from Demasque within 3-5 business days of your application being made. Your confirmation email will include a link to purchase the High Tease: Bid To Serve ticket at the price of $275AUD. By purchasing that ticket you officially confirm to us both your willingness to serve under the information provided to you in this application form and your official spot as a server at the High Tease event. If you receive a confirmation email of your successful application and do not purchase the Bid To Serve ticket within 5 days of your confirmation email, your position will be forfeited and you may re-apply via this application form.
Applications close 7 days before the event commences.
The cut-off date to submit your Bid To Serve application is Midnight of Saturday 24th June.
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